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The Moment I Realized I Didn’t Want to Miss My Children Growing Up

Writer: Suzan Lovelace
Suzan Lovelace
Aug 10
3 min read
Mom enjoying time freedom and bonding with kids
Spending quality time with kids

There was a time when I thought being a good mom meant doing whatever I had to do to provide.

So I went to work.

Even when I was exhausted.

Even when the environment around me became toxic.

Even when I was overwhelmed and running on fumes.

I kept telling myself, “This is just what I have to do.”


But something started bothering me more and more.

Someone else was spending time with my children while I was working.

Someone else was there for moments I couldn't get back.

And honestly, I worried.

Were my children safe?

Were they being cared for the way I would care for them?

What were they learning?

What values were being reinforced while I was away?


I couldn't simply turn those thoughts off when I walked into work.

I would be sitting at my desk, trying to keep it together in an environment that was already draining me, while part of my mind was at home with my babies.

And then came the moments I couldn't get back.

The little things.

The conversations.

The milestones.

The ordinary afternoons that don't look important until you realize they're the childhood your children will remember.


Something snapped in me.

I realized I didn't want my life to be built around asking someone else for permission to be available for my own family.

I didn't want a ceiling on what I could earn.

I didn't want to spend years working simply to keep up with bills and debt.

And I didn't want “maybe someday” to be the plan for my family.

I wanted time freedom.

I wanted the ability to work without missing every important family moment.

I wanted to create income without believing my earning potential had to stop at a certain number.

I wanted to work from a place that allowed me to breathe.


So I started learning about digital business.

I started exploring side hustles, digital skills, online income, and ways to build something that could work around my life instead of forcing my entire life to work around a job.

It wasn't an overnight transformation.

I had questions.

I had doubts.

I had plenty to learn.


But I also had something I hadn't had before:

a reason that was bigger than my fear.

And eventually, that reason became bigger than just me.


I started thinking about other moms who were sitting at work overwhelmed.

Other moms who were missing family moments.

Other moms carrying debt and wondering how they were ever going to get ahead.

Other moms who wanted to build something but didn't know where to begin.

Other moms who didn't need another person telling them to “hustle harder.”

They needed support.

They needed practical strategies.

They needed permission to start small.

They needed a place where they could learn at their own pace, build a side hustle around their existing responsibilities, and believe that creating another income stream was actually possible.

That's why I created Digital Success Strategies.

Not because I believe every mom needs to quit her job tomorrow.

But because I believe moms deserve options.

You can start where you are.

You can learn one skill:

*Self Publishing

*Baking

*Resin Art

*Digital Products and Affiliate Marketing

*Sublimation Printing

and more


You can build a side hustle around nap times, evenings, weekends, or whatever your life allows.

You can move at your own pace.

And you can start creating something that belongs to you.

Because motherhood shouldn't mean abandoning your dreams.

And building a business shouldn't mean abandoning your family.


Maybe you are the mom with the job you love, but you are still interested in learning a skill/side hustle. This is perfect for you too!


Maybe the goal isn't to do more.

Maybe the goal is to build a life where the things that matter most finally have room to exist.

And for me, that meant deciding:

I don't want to miss my life while I'm working to afford it.


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I am building something worthwhile, and I would love it if you join me on that journey!


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